Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

1.      Make Peace With Your Past a.       The hardest thing for me to do is to “let go” and actually release myself from my past bondage. I had   a tendency of collecting and holding on to the pain, the mistakes, and drama instead of learning from it and leaving it.   I do believe that we should all learn from our past but do not allow it to spoil your future or interrupt your present. 2 .      What others think of YOU is   NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS a.       Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, so what a person thinks about you is just that, Remember, it’s not what you are called but what you are answered too 3.       Time heals ALMOST everything a.       But you have to give time some time, pain, hurt, loss, love, change never happens over night give yourself time. 4.      No one is the reason of your happiness except YOURSELF a.       Don’t make people or things the root of your happiness. Happiness is yours alone to control or destroy 5 .      Don’t compare y

I just realized that I am the most honest when I have my hands on my keyboard, whether it be writing my blog, poetry, short stories. Whenever I write my truth comes out, my pain, my passion and even my confusion.  i was told by doctor once that most great counselors where once extremely messed up patients. it makes sense in a way. Today I feel reached my breaking point where everything in me was lost even my relationship with GOD. I found myself today alone in my room hysterically crying and yelling at GOD. You see my entire life all I ever wanted was a mother's love, I had a mother and I loved her until she died but I never felt that love in return until about a month before she died. That one thing that I wanted for so long and was just about to get and it was taken from me and honestly I never got over it and I am not sure if I ever will. I grew up twelve years of my life feeling like my own mother didn't love me and as soon as I started to feel the love it was snatche