Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

Happy Sunday Team: I trust that everyone had a very productive week and if not I want to share a few steps that you need to overcomer to get out of your way and push towards your purpose and prosperity. 1)       Worry or Pray but you can’t do both : Stop worrying about things that you cannot change and focus on the things that you can. Give your worries to higher power and trust in the path that is laid out for you. 2)       Be Accountable : Stop blaming other people for where you are in life because at the end of the day our decisions put us where we are but we have a choice to learn and progress or complain and stay where we are. 3)       Be realistic : Stop expecting perfection from others when you are not perfect. You cannot expect what you don’t project. 4)       Remove CAN’T from your vocabulary : No further explanation is needed just do it 5)    ...

What causes people to Cheat ??? Its a question that no one really knows the answer to unless they have actually cheated. I personally have not cheated because I do not like keeping track with lies, I would most likely tell on myself lol but truthfully I have been cheated on and I remember how it impacted me emotionally, physically and mentally. That is what this post all about dealing with the residual effects because although I honestly believe that cheating has more to do with the cheater than their companion unfortunately the companion becomes a victim of their internal war. Be Hurt, Not Angry I know that is easier said than done but truth is the first is to not lash out because you unknowingly give them the satisfaction of having control over you which in some cases is like feeding the beast, you lash out and they say I know you would act like that, that's why i didn't tell you. KEEP your POWER. But you are allowed to feel hu...

If you ever really read one of my earlier posts or my book, " This is Me..", then you know that for most of my life like most people I have dealt with insecurities. So, when Beyonce's released her new album and this song was track one, I literally broke down the first time I heard it because people sometimes think that insecurity just stems from not liking what you see in the mirror but it comes from a much deeper place than that. Within in the chorus Beyonce sings, " Trying fix something but you can't fix what you can't see, it's the soul that needs a surgery".  Listening to that part alone made we want to right this this blog because I think a lot of us need to schedule an "soul surgery", mines personally took my two and a half years but I did it. I have made peace with what the source of my insecurities where which for me where part societal and part familial. I never been the girl that really cared much for societal norms in fact I ...

This year has been utterly beautiful I don't even know how else to explain it, I mean I had a lot of ups and downs but sitting here in front of my computer , three days before the new year, all I can say is " THANK YOU GOD". Like I said my year was all sunshine and rainbows but it was blessed, I was blessed. I am coming out stronger, wiser, and ready to live my best days. This year I became a partner in a start up company created by me and my cousin and not only is the idea of creating something different and empowering but to also reconnect with my family, it was like  finding a twin spirit, I love my TOOT, I am appreciative and thankful for her everyday, she is the ying to my yang. I published my first book of poetry  "This is Me.." and I am preparing my next book to come out in 2015.  I have did some amazing things I can even express them all, I have also had some devastating blows but because my relationship with my higher power (GOD) , I was able to not o...

. If you know me personally then you know that I am a die hard Beyonce' fan and not because she's famous or rich but because her music grew up with me and it always speak to where I am or where I was in life. I also love her business mind. But her song "The Best thing I never had"  spoke to my recent situation when I myself had to let go of an relationship that I was in for half my life. There is a particular phrase within that song that has stuck with me  and that " THANK GOD I FOUND THE GOOD IN GOOD BYE". So, that leads me to this question , we all say the word "good bye" but when you're in a relationship and you're fighting with all that you have to hold on to it, we often can't see the good in letting go. I know that I didn't I thought  that if I prayed hard enough, if I worked hard enough, if I looked good enough, if my sex game was good enough, then maybe he would see what he had right beside him and would become a better m...