Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

As I sit in my living room speaking to my other half and although we have known each other for such a long time it was only when we faced adversity and possibly losing each other that we realized that in order for us to truly be in love that, we first had to allow love in our lives. Although, we would like to think that we are better than our parents and because we are grown that our childhood doesn’t really impact our adult decision but truth is that it does. I mean, I was personally ready to throw fifteen tears away because I didn’t truly know how to give a 100 % of myself to someone else. So, here are a few things that we learned that help build our relationship and actually made love our love so much deeper … I hope it helps  1.       Let Go our your past : Throughout life we tend to pick up baggage from our past whether it be the divorce of our parents, parents not being our lives, not having parents, past relationships, whatever it is that cause you t

It is so weird that when I look at so many people that I encounter that amongst all the other craziness, one thing that I have noticed that we have some where stepped back from taking accountability for our actions. WE have grown accustom to playing the victim card regardless of the situation.  I was raised in a Christian household and if my parents didn’t instill nothing else in I was taught to always hold myself accountable for the decisions that I make because Romans 14:12 states “So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. “  Which really always stuck with me that when it is my time give my curtain call and I have to my one on one with God, he is not going to ask me, Why I did the things that I did or even who I did them with but he will ask of my to account for my own actions. I am by no means stating that people do not wrong you, that you will walk this life and never be the victim but what I will give you this passage of comfort that my mentor gave me when I was

This has been on my mind for a while so yall know that I would not be me if I didn’t express this. You see I am currently taking courses at Liberty University as I expand my own knowledge and I also get to learn more about the Lord which is a double major for me. But as I build my relationship with God, he often speaks to me. A week ago I saved a picture quote on my phone that read, “Stop watering things that were never meant to grow in your life”, funny thing is the quote was posted by Bishop TD Jakes. Now if you follow me on any of my social media pages then you would know that I post a lot of inspirational and thought provoking stuff but something about this quote just stuck to me and as I stroll down my time and I notice the turmoil of not only the world with all the violence but people and their individual lives and God spoke so clearly when he told me I had to expound upon this the meaning behind the message. I see so many people trying to breathe life into a situa