Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

You know there is a difference between, “Loving someone and being in love with someone”. Growing up, I believed that this concept was only applied to relationships of the romantic variety but I was sadly mistaking.   If, you follow me then you know that I have been through a lot but 2016 was a turning year and I lost a lot but I found someone who had been missing for awhile and that was me. So, I have spent the last year and a half falling in love with myself and my perfect flaws.   It is so crazy when I think back because I not it has me questioning every time I said “I love you” to someone how much truth was behind it. I mean really can you love someone, I mean truly love someone if you are not truly in love with yourself. Don’t get me wrong I love me, I think I am very special person but I was not in love with myself which basically led me to become a slave to the preconceived notions of who people think I should be instead of living my own truth. Recently, ...

Hey Team I know it has been a REALLY long time and I do apologize with all of my heart but I have been dealing with a lot. A little over a year ago my grandmother passed away and she was one of my biggest supporters so I have been really dealing with my depression and trying to refocus my passion and progression. But I am back and I have lot in store for all my Team, so make sure that you hit the SUBSCRIBE button and well as follow me on IG @coach_destiny and trccoaching THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT COACH DESTINY

Happy Sunday Team: I trust that everyone had a very productive week and if not I want to share a few steps that you need to overcomer to get out of your way and push towards your purpose and prosperity. 1)       Worry or Pray but you can’t do both : Stop worrying about things that you cannot change and focus on the things that you can. Give your worries to higher power and trust in the path that is laid out for you. 2)       Be Accountable : Stop blaming other people for where you are in life because at the end of the day our decisions put us where we are but we have a choice to learn and progress or complain and stay where we are. 3)       Be realistic : Stop expecting perfection from others when you are not perfect. You cannot expect what you don’t project. 4)       Remove CAN’T from your vocabulary : No further explanation is needed just do it 5)    ...

Whispers in the dark is my new podcast that will be posted every Thursday at 9pm est. This podcast will be very different because not only will i be giving you a no ho'ds barred life lessons like always but i will be sharing my journey. 2016 was indeed my best and worst year but this podcast chronicles how i turned my tragedy into triumph.

  Last night as I set in the wings of St. Paul’s Baptist Church with my sister flanking me. As I sat there and let the message that Dr. Watson was feeding my soul about how in order to move forwards you have to let go. He said you have to bury your past completely before you can truly enjoy your present for your future has not yet to come.   Listening to these words I felt something in my soul snap as 30 years of baggage of pain and confusion started to flood my mind and soul and something in me snapped. I realized before I can truly enjoy my breakthrough, I would have to first allow myself to break down completely and bury the past. Its only one way I know how to do that and that is to allow my hands to hit these keys. No one will know it to look at me or to even converse with me that I am silently suffering in the inside. Ever since I was child, I felt like I was a magnet for bad stuff to happen to me and somewhere I just learn to accept it but never show it to the...

As you all know that I draw inspiration for various places but I am also a fan of Oprah's Life class, if you have never watched I strongly suggest it. I also like to do the work because it helps me with my clients. Today I am going to be sharing with you a tool that you can use to help you become a star in your own life. 1. Write down the 10 things about yourself that you try to hide from others, and be honest. 2 Dr. Phil wants you to think about the choices you can make to create a positive outcome. What is it that you're doing that's working? 3 What do you need to stop doing that's getting in the way of what you want? 4 What do you need to start doing that will empower you to move forward? 5 Dr. Phil has seven key strategies for attaining your goal. Strategy #1: Express your goal in terms of specific events or behaviors. (Example: My goal is to return to college and earn a degree.) Complete this sentenc...