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Sister To Sister Sunday

Q: What if your faith and your current career don't align? A: Then you need to go back to your faith and listen to the answers that he gives you Q:  How do you walk away from people you've known half your life? A: Dont confuse history with loyalty not everyone who ages together will actually grow together.  you can still be cordial with the knowing that yall lives are on two different paths Q:  Is there away to fix bad sex? A: Communication and exploration  remember sex should be more than physical act Q: Is it possible to rebuild trust? A: It's possible only after you have truly healed and forgave otherwise you will harbor resentment Q: What is the best way to overcome heartbreak? A: Reflection and time.. give yourself the opportunity to heal Q. How do you handle jealous people? A. keep being great their jealousy has nothing to do with you

Daddy Lesson

My father is hands down one of my favorite people because no matter what he has always been a constant form of support and comfort for me. I am a self-proclaimed Daddy’s Girl because of our bond is just that tight. Most importantly and why I am dedicating this post to him is because he has also been my teacher, my spiritual advisor and coach throughout my life.   So, I decided today to share just a few “fatherly” tidbits that he has shared with me over the years and that have truly impacted my life in a good way. 1.        Just do “YOUR” best a.        Ever since I was child and I would bring home my report card and although I had great grades if, I got something that I thought was not to my liking, he would always ask me “Do you do your best because as long as you do YOUR best then I am proud of you”. 2.        No Worries. TRUST GOD a.        My daddy’s faith is inspiring and whenever he is going through something you would never know because he does not believe

How to Live Alone

Would you believe me if I told you that at thirty years old I have never truly lived alone?   I have been in and out of relationship for the last seventeen years of my life? I have a big family that is very close knit? I have never been alone and to be honest now as I sit down I finally come to the conclusion that although I have always had someone in my life, I have always been lonely. Most people get that confused because I know that I did because I thought being alone and being lonely where the same thing but I was sadly mistaken. As I clung tightly to people and bad relationship I was slowly loosing myself until December 31 st 2015.   IF you read my blog then you know that at Watch Night Service 2015 I had a break down but I now see that is something that I needed in order to get to where I needed to be. I stayed in relationships, clung onto people not because I had a fear of being alone because to be honest the best times I have is when I am by myself but I wa