Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

For those who dont know I also do couples coaching and one thing I always get is question in regards to sex. I dont really answer them but I have decided to indulge because sexualality is a very real part of our lives. Here are a few questions that were picked out by my team ... Q: what if any is the difference between having sex and intimacy? A.       There is a difference because although sex for most is an intimate act that’s not what intimacy is. Intimacy is like a shared affection something a cuddling on the couch, fixing a quiet dinner or a good conversation while driving are all intimate encounters that do not involve sex. Q. Do you believe in “no strings attached” sex ? A. Personally I think that sex in itself is a “string” but I do believe that people can a relationship solely based upon a physical attraction. I don’t recommend it because eventually you will develop some sort of attachment to the person. So let me clarify, I think sex w...

1.      Make Peace With Your Past a.       The hardest thing for me to do is to “let go” and actually release myself from my past bondage. I had   a tendency of collecting and holding on to the pain, the mistakes, and drama instead of learning from it and leaving it.   I do believe that we should all learn from our past but do not allow it to spoil your future or interrupt your present. 2 .      What others think of YOU is   NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS a.       Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, so what a person thinks about you is just that, Remember, it’s not what you are called but what you are answered too 3.       Time heals ALMOST everything a.       But you have to give time some time, pain, hurt, loss, love, change never happens over night give yourself time. 4.      No one is the reason of yo...

You see there is a big problem that spreading amongst young ladies where they think that by having a man's child then that's how you keep that man. I have to just shake my head on that one because it has to be the dumbest thing anyone has ever thought of. Do you honestly think that if that man does not love you that a kid will make him stay. You see a real man will take care of his responsibilities and he will love and be obligated to his child but that does not mean he is obligated to you boo. How many times must I address this;  ladies you have to think with what's between your ears and not between your leg. Having a baby can not be like your last resort because you are trying to save your relationship because the only person that get hurts in the end is the child. Another thing that irritates me do not use your child as a bargaining chip, if the man is taking care of his responsibilities and have moved on with another girl don't try to deprive hi...