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YOU WONT FIGHT ABOUT IT OR WILL YOU ??

I have been going through a very private yet emotional conflict over the last 6 to 7 months and it has cause me a lot of stress and worry. My life was spiraling and although I was not doing anything crazy I was losing pieces of myself which is not cool. So, last week I sat down with my journal and my pen as often do I started to create a list of things I had not yet to accomplish in my life, goals I have given up on, things I have taken for granted and things I still want to do . AS I wrote and just let my emotions pour on the page on the last line I wrote “I BET YOU WONT FIGHT ABOUT IT”.    If you know me then you know that is one of my favorite   phrases after I talk shit to someone almost like I taunt to get a reaction out of person but as I look at my journal I had to think , who was I taunting at this moment, who was I trying to get a reaction out of?   Then it clicked I was taunting myself because I had allowed life and all the drama that comes along with to dist

Woman WERK Wednesday : Destiny "Coach Destiny" Cammack

In honor of our Second Annual " I am Woman Empowerment " Month each Wednesday well will celebrate a woman who is chasing her dreams and impacting their communities and the lives of others in a major way. Destiny  " Coach Destiny " Cammack  Coach Destiny is  a the founder and the director of the True Revelations LLC.  My mission in life to help  empower and educate people so that they can become the best versions of themselves. I started in the non profit field my freshman year of high school and fell in love with helping people become better.  I am full of ambition and I have several other avenues of my brand which includes professional services, motivational speaking, writing and so much more to come. What motivates you? I know this sounds really cliche but love motivates me, wanting to live the best version of my life and knowing that I did all that I could to make my dreams a reality. The love of my family, friends, and the people help all motivate me

15 signs that you are doing better than you think

I saw this on lifehack and decidied to share it because nothing is as bad as you believe as long as you continue to believe in something better ... 1. You’ve lived and learned No one said life was easy and while the bumps on the road may hurt, the ride is definitely worth it.  Think back to your failures and defeats. You must know they were all for a reason and part of a grander plan.  Each difficulty has led you to where you are at today, each trial has molded you into the magnificent, resilient, person that you are. Continue to move forward in faith, hope and love, knowing that each experience has taught you what you need to become who you were born to be. 2. You have a comfy bed to sleep in I’ll never forget an interview done on NPR a while back. A young Haitian mother told her story. She had little ones that constantly wondered when they would be able to eat and go to school like all the other kids around them. What impacted me the most about this story was t

ACT YOUR WAGE ..

Saw this on Life hacks and had to share with you all : http://www.lifehack.org/293764/8-habits-that-keep-you-poor-even-with-reasonable-income?mid=20150806&ref=mail&uid=243483&feq=daily Here are the top 8 habits that can sneak into your hard-earned income and eat up your funds. Spending more as your income increases There’s no harm in raising your standard of life when you can. However, if you are a person who is constantly looking for ways to spend your money, you will probably find yourself in a difficult situation soon enough. If you continuously raise your expenditure along with any increase in your income (or even without it), it would be hard to have any real savings. Try to keep your expenditures at a constant level along with exploring ways to increase your income. That’s the route to success! Focusing on the present without caring about the future Usually, when people find it hard to tackle a problem, they choose to ignore it. That’s a sure rec

Man in the mirror

I honor of  the life  and legacy of  Micheal Jackson I have dedicated this post to him. I absolutely love this song but for a long time it took me a long time to truly understand what he was trying to say with this song. But once I got I got it and I ran with it, So, let me break it down to you . In this song , Micheal is saying that in order to change the world, make things better in life and the lives of others we first must love ourselves. WE CANNOT BECOME WHO WE ARE DESTINED TO BE IF WE ARE AFRAID TO FACE THE PERSON IN THE MIRROR,  I want to say that the process if easy and that after a few powerful confirmations then you got it but it is not. Some days you wake feeling like the Queen Sheba and other days you will wake up feeling like Sh*t. I am just being honest, I know for myself I constantly battling between the woman that I am and the woman that I want to become, But once I  confronted the person in the mirror it became easier to deal with so many other things in my life.  Th

Who Can Love You Better

I think one of the hardest things that I had to learn as I began to grow into the woman that I am becoming is to learn how to love myself. I know that for some to hear this its with that you do or your don’t but if you live long enough and endure life then you will understand that sometimes this world can bring you so low that you began to loathe the image looking back at you in the mirror. Not loving one often comes from not truly knowing oneself and the power that is inside you. Self-hatred has nothing to do with looks, body shape or insecurities and everything to do with the love. Not truly loving oneself, what love is and not knowing your higher power.   I really don’t know when I fell out of love with myself but I know how I fell back in love with Destiny and the steps I took to get there. 1.        Let Go of my pain and anxiety a.        This would be one the hardest things that I had to endure. I mean I had to open wounds that I thought had to heal but I was still car