As I sit in my living
room speaking to my other half and although we have known each other for such a
long time it was only when we faced adversity and possibly losing each other
that we realized that in order for us to truly be in love that, we first had to
allow love in our lives. Although, we would like to think that we are better
than our parents and because we are grown that our childhood doesn’t really
impact our adult decision but truth is that it does. I mean, I was personally
ready to throw fifteen tears away because I didn’t truly know how to give a 100
% of myself to someone else.
So, here are a few
things that we learned that help build our relationship and actually made love
our love so much deeper … I hope it helps
1. Let Go our your past: Throughout life we tend to pick up baggage from our past whether it be the divorce of our parents, parents not being our lives, not having parents, past relationships, whatever it is that cause you to not truly give your whole heart to someone you are in love with, you have to learn to let it go. Romans 12:19 says it best, Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” You don’t have to carry around that pain anymore take to God and he will handle the rest.
2.
Communicate your feeling:
No one is ever going to love you the way you want to be loved that is an
impossible task but if you communicate with your partner, espresso to them what
makes you happy and actually take the time to listen then you will then open yourself
up to a love that even you couldn’t imagine.
3.
Trust
yourself: I can’t really go into detail not do
I feel it needs further explanation you have to trust yourself before you can
build a successful relationship.
4.
FALL:
it’s a reason why they call it “falling in love” because you have absolutely no
control over it what so ever but if you don’t tense up, don’t grab for every
boulder, rock. Person, etc. to try and break the fall then and only then will
your experience the full power of love. Ephesians
4:2 states that “With all humility and gentleness, with
patience, bearing with one another in love, “ Just allowed yourself to love and be loved
5.
Love
without conditions : as I study the Bible I have
heard this scripture so many times at so many wedding but not until your own
relationship is tested then you can truly know the meaning 1
Corinthians 13:4-8 ESV / 829 helpful votes ,”Love
is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does
not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends.
As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for
knowledge, it will pass away. At the end
of the Day all we have is love, so why not embrace it for God is love.
Love is often seem of
some mythical cure that we are all searching for but truth is , Love has all be
there GOD is LOVE and all we have to do is lean on him at all times and allow
him to live through us and everything else will fall into place.
Hope this help and
know I am available for one on one session, I do both spiritual and life
coaching contact me today at coachdestiny@truerevelationscoaching.com
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