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Smash Pass or Grow the hell up …



So, I have been having this on my mind for a while and although I love social media it is how I spread the word about my business, share photos and them crazy reposts that I am known for but  what I do not like about it theses attention  games that people play on them. I always hated ideas of even pageants because you give someone a number which is always been borating to me but on Facebook, instagram, etc. you see people games like “Smash or Pass”, “Date, maybe, pass, ““TBH my first impression of you”.

It makes me feel sad that people are actually turning to other people that they may not even know for acceptance, approval or just plain attention. What has the world come to where my value is placed on a picture where people decide whether or not they would like to have sex with me or not. I mean really let’s be honest for most guys and some girls, it really doesn’t even matter what you look like because everyone one looks the same in the dark. But the fact that we are even looking to strangers for that kind of attention leads me to know that in your life something is lacking and unfulfilling.  So, unless you are a porn star and you putting yourself out there as a part of your job then you really need to take a self-evaluation of your life. Look at your life, what you have going for you, what you want out of life and what is missing? Then you create a plan to make yourself happy and whole because you are not going to find it in a Facebook rating game. I mean let’s be honest, 100 people can rate you a 10 but if inside you feel like a 0 then guess what you are always going to feel like a 0.

People often say that they play these games when they are bored, well I challenge you that next time read book, post a prayer or a funny joke but don’t allow yourself to be subjugated as entertainment for the masses. Also because you never know what kind of predators are out there watching and lying in wait for an insecure non aware victim to pop up on their screen, Love who you are, smash the insecurities that you may have about yourself and pass by any person who wants to play games.

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