Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

So, I really get frustrated when I hear friends and family talk bad about my last boyfriend in fact he was probably one of my only real boyfriends, my first love to be exact. Don’t get it twisted we went through some things but I don’t like when people blame others for my decisions and actions. I can’t lie and say being in that relationship may have persuaded my perception of things but ultimately it was my decision. This leads me to this general question, “Whose To Blame?????” I always here people and see status updates about how somebody is doing something to someone else, or the world is doing something to you but what I never here is what you are doing to provoke these attacks or a plan to prevent them. We as a people because I use to do it to , are always looking for someone or something thing to blame but we never truly take accountability for our own actions and the state that those actions has left our lives. If you were to look at any situation in your life and wer...

I can honestly admit now anyway that one of my biggest faults and the thing that keeps me from truly attaining all of my goals is that I tend to compare myself and my accomplishments to others. Even to this day it's a struggle but I understand that what's for me is for me and I have learn to accept me for who I am and allow myself to GREAT. I was reading an article online that address the same issues and I wanted to share with you, 1. You are one of a kind. There is literally no one walking this earth quite like you. 2. Life isn’t a competition so pursue what makes you happy in a pace that you are comfortable with. 3. Remind yourself of how wonderful you are. 4. Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem to others. 5. Realize that you won’t always be the best at everything and that’s okay. Try focusing on beating your own best score instead of someone else’s, it will help measure your growth in a healthy way. 6. Be grateful for what you do have and...