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SIns of Father

The more I grow each day, I have started to realize that even in my own family that we have “Generational Curses” and sometimes not breaking those curses is what hinders us from living out our purpose. I mean when I look at my own immediate family, my parents where hard workers they keep a steady job even if they don’t like it for maybe five or ten years.   My sister and my brother are the same way but me I am different I get restless and when I get restless then I switch up occupation with my main goal to counseling and owning my own business stay in the front of my mind. I am pretty sure that if you really take time out to evaluate your family then you will notice a few generational curses too, it could as simple as marrying early or something like alcoholism every family has a few. What I am going to touch on today is how to combat those curses and create new trends for the generation behind you. 1.         Research It a.   ...

Welcome to my Sex Room

For those who dont know I also do couples coaching and one thing I always get is question in regards to sex. I dont really answer them but I have decided to indulge because sexualality is a very real part of our lives. Here are a few questions that were picked out by my team ... Q: what if any is the difference between having sex and intimacy? A.       There is a difference because although sex for most is an intimate act that’s not what intimacy is. Intimacy is like a shared affection something a cuddling on the couch, fixing a quiet dinner or a good conversation while driving are all intimate encounters that do not involve sex. Q. Do you believe in “no strings attached” sex ? A. Personally I think that sex in itself is a “string” but I do believe that people can a relationship solely based upon a physical attraction. I don’t recommend it because eventually you will develop some sort of attachment to the person. So let me clarify, I think sex w...