Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

The one fundamental thing that all people need in order to survive is " communication", so it really bothers me when I see and listen to people who are in their mid twenties , late thirties and still have a hard time to communicating So, I have a few tips for better communication   1. " Know what you want to say" : The most important thing in any conversation is actually getting the opportunity to say exactly what it is that you want to say but before you even get ready to open your mouth , do a mental rehearsal of what you are going to express just to make sure that it makes sense to you before you share it verbally. 2. " Talk too not at " : I use to have a real problem with this in the middle of the conversation it sounds more like a monologue than a conversation because I wasn't allowing the other person enough to time to absorb the information and respond if needed. So , don't talk at a person give them time to respond, slow it down a...

Now for me this has been an on going discussion between me and my friends about how some females don't play their role within a relationship. The two roles that often come into question are Wifey Vs. Side Piece. So,I did a little digging and found my way unto urban dictionary.com, to look up  these two words.  According to urban dictionary;  wifey by definition is A woman that you treat right, respect and feel good having her as your girl.  The definition of  Side line hoe or side piece is Being a mistress, or just a girlfriend on the side. So in order to clarify the situation for some young ladies who may be a "Side Piece" trying to play a " Wifey" role. If this man wants nothing to do with you, then you're a side piece.  If the only time that he comes around is if he want to "cut"  then you are a side piece, If you allow this man to treat you with no respect, and he treats your emotions like a welcome mat that he wipes his feet on then I...

These were my top 4 picks of the night, if you submitted a question I will respond within the next 24 hours. Don;t forget to submit your questions to truerevelationscoaching@outlook.com Q: My girl has this thing where as she likes to hook her friends up with my friends and honestly i don't like it, I think it is cause for more drama. What do you think? A: Communication is most important when it comes to this situation because honestly her heart is in the right place, I think without knowing her. I was that way at one point, you are so in love that you want your friends to feel what you feel but she has to realize that y'all relationship is unique to y'all two. So, sit her down , tell her how you feel but you know her heart is in the right place but everyone has to find love for themselves. Q: I want my ex back, I am man enough  to admit that I did some things in the past that were cowardly because I wasn't mentally ready for the commitment but now I am ready d...