Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

 Oh, how I love my music but this post is not about love or relationships but it's about Self. Figuring out who you are and deciding what person you want to be?  My goal everyday is to become the best version of Destiny that I can possibly be. What is your daily Goal? Who are you and How did you get here? Some of us look at where we are in life, and we may complain, gripe about how we "thought" out lives would be different? Some of us are excited that we even made it this far? But the question I am asking you is , How did you get here?  The person that you are today, how did you become that person and what are you going to do make yourself better or do you feel who you are is the best version? I know that I got you all scratching your head, like what ??? So, let me break it down for you, in order for you to become the person you want to be, the best version of yourself, from where you are TODAY ... 1. Who are you today ? : Take a good look in the mirror and def...

You should have already known that I was coming after this one but do not get it twisted, this is not going to male  basing post but I would not be me if I didn't put my personal spin on this. I love this song, and although I agree with K. Michele you can't raise any grown person whether it be male or female but I do believe that with communication, patience and love that you can't help them grow. You know I have to use my own life as an example, me and my boo, have know each other going on  15 years which is the equivalent to more than half our lives, we have seen each other through some tough times, we grew up and three years ago we grew apart but not we are back together and the relationship is better because we both understand not only where we are in life but where want to be. What I didn't understand three years ago is that  I was trying to raise a man instead of letting him come into his own manhood. You see sometimes as women and some men, we are already on ...

It's been a long time since I actually set down and wanted to write, not that I didn't have a lot to write about but because I have been so busy with trying to get this event we call "life" eight that I haven't had to time to really unpack all the thoughts in my mind. But I am BACK .. . So, if you know me or if you have read my blogs then you can see that I really try to be a good person and not that being a good person is a hard thing to do but in a society where you are more often judged then elevated at times treating others how you want to be treated can seem like an impossible task.  I see  a lot of social status about, treating people how they treat you and being cold to people and I actually found myself heading down that path. When I love regardless is it's a friendship,intimate, or family, I LOVE without conditions giving myself and all that I am to that person regardless of how they may reciprocate it but I would be lieing if I said that , lov...