I came into the New Year with so much confusion and
emotional turmoil but after reconnecting to my purpose and letting go of the
past. It is a continuing process but the end peace in better than living in
your own personal hell.
I know that we all going through something but the worst
thing that we can do is allow ourselves to succumb to the darkness and accept
what is for what will be. These are a few steps that I have taken and hopefully.
1. Respect your process
a. A
couple of days ago I was talking to my Step mom and I was saying how I feel
like I am stuck in my own mind and she said “What if there is where you need to
be”. It took a while but it clicked that for me being in my own mind was a part
of my process. I am not sure what your process might be but I am telling you to
respect it and allow yourself to go through the process.
2.
Loose Control
a.
Take
your hands off it, I tell myself this
over 50 times a day because I had to be okay with uncertainty because
truth is we cannot be in control 100% of the time. So, I am telling you to lose
control and understand that the sometimes the chips may fall into place and
sometimes the chips might fall off table
3.
Choose You
a.
This really doesn’t need any further
explanation , I think at times we get so caught up with making sure our kids,
our companions, our families are okay and taken care of that we forget to take
care of our star player, YOU! No one who truly loves you will ever be truly
happy unless you are as well.
4.
History is for lessons not for repetition
a.
The best thing that we can do is to let go of
the past and count it as a lesson learned and work towards a better future
while we appreciate the present.
5.
Reconnect with your higher power
a.
This could have been steps 1-4, the reason
why we go through so much discomfort and stress is because we are in somehow
disconnected from our faith. IN my case I was running from him because facing God
would also be mean facing my fear and stepping into my faith.
I hope that this helps you because it times to pick yourself back up and walk into your GREATNESS!!!
Love you TEAM
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