Talk To ME

Talk to Me

For the month of February, I have decided to dedicate to my blog to support, “How to Love “Each week will be discussing a topic that is relevant to all relationships. This week’s topic is communication …

Communication is vital in every relationship because if you are unable to express yourself too openly and honestly then you cheat yourself and your companion because you are not giving then the “REAL” you. So, I am going to share some of my communication rules Coach Destiny style…

1.     Leave your guards at the door

a.     The worst thing that you can do when trying to talk to someone is to come in guarded. It takes away from the conversation because you spend more energy trying to climb across that wall in order to get close enough for your words to impact.

2.     Listen don’t Hear

a.     There is a difference because I do it often, I can hear the words but they don’t register almost like back ground noise but when you actually when you take the time to listen the intent to understand and not judge.

3.     Take off the mask

a.     We all have a representative of the person we think that our other half want, lay them off take off the mask if you truly want to progress in the relationship then you have to be able to show them who you are

4.     Trust your partner with all of you

a.     Trust is a whole another topic in itself but in order to truly communicate you have to trust your partner with all of you, I mean if they love you they will accept you and if not then you will know the truth.

5.     Breathe

a.     Just relax it’s a reason why you guys where initially attracted to each other, trust that and allow the relationship to blossom.

Your partner can love you with everything in them but if you are not able to communicate with them they will never fully be able to fulfill you and vice versa. If you want to be touched a certain way have issues with intimacy or even if you just had a bad day work then open up your mouths. Closed mouths don’t get fed or Kisses lol