I took a look at some of my past posts and I notice when I tend to focus on the women then they I always get great reviews. So, today in a very spontaneous way I decided to create sister 2 sister Sunday which is basically time for women to contact me to help answer a question, give advice, or for an honest opinion.
So, here are few of the questions that I Have received today ...
Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend and I don't know how to move on, he has a new girl friend but he says that he is not happy and he still loves me. How do I let him go?
The best way to move on from a past love, is to just move on. I know it maybe hard and you are going to have to give yourself permission to vulnerable and then you move on. He may very well be unhappy but he also left, don't forget that there is a reason why you two are no longer together and you need to accept that. So, if you need to erase his number, block it, or name it "Don't Answer" then do it and after you allow yourself t accept that it's over, I want you to put you "Big Girl Panties On" and go out and LIVE ,
Q: How do remain independent and in control of my life without becoming a complete BITCH?
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First, how come when I a woman is independent and in control she is a Bitch but if you where a man then you would be a BOSS. Just because you are want to take charge of your life doesn't make you a bitch it makes you human. The most important thing I can tell is recognize and accept that you will not be able to control everything in life, sometimes you will have to just go with the flow and allow things to happen. Independence is fine and dandy but at times we all will have to depend on someone doesn't make you weak it makes you human.
Q: What is the difference between being "in love" and loving someone?
In my personal opinion there is a big difference from being in love and loving someone. I have love for everyone but I am not in love with everyone. We should all have "love" for one another and show respect and care for each other but doesn't mean that we marry or bed down everyone that we see, Being in love is an experience that can't be describe , it is giving someone your heart and trusting them not to break it. But love is an essential part of living, so just embrace it. Trust you will no when you fall in love.
Q: I can't stop having sex with my ex boyfriend even though I know he has a girl, but I don't feel bad because he cheated on me with her?
Baby Girl this question is so loaded I don't even know where to begin , so I guess I will dive in. You can stop having sex with him but you choose not too. For some reason you think that you are punishing her because she was the other woman but you fail to realize that the only person that is going to hurt is you. I mean he is still with her right and now instead of cheating with her, he's cheating with you. So, now you are going to allow another woman heel the hurt that you feel because obviously you haven't gotten over it or you would walk away not into his bedroom. You know what you are doing and a part of you is still holding on to him and I don't know the history of your relationship but it's obvious that you are still holding on and he's taking advantage of that.
Sister 2 Sister Sunday has been a BLAST, I hope that I have given you the answers and advice that you have been looking for. I am gearing up for next week so if send me all your questions. If your question has not been posted on here or either Instagram then check your inbox.
So, here are few of the questions that I Have received today ...
Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend and I don't know how to move on, he has a new girl friend but he says that he is not happy and he still loves me. How do I let him go?
The best way to move on from a past love, is to just move on. I know it maybe hard and you are going to have to give yourself permission to vulnerable and then you move on. He may very well be unhappy but he also left, don't forget that there is a reason why you two are no longer together and you need to accept that. So, if you need to erase his number, block it, or name it "Don't Answer" then do it and after you allow yourself t accept that it's over, I want you to put you "Big Girl Panties On" and go out and LIVE ,
Q: How do remain independent and in control of my life without becoming a complete BITCH?
.
First, how come when I a woman is independent and in control she is a Bitch but if you where a man then you would be a BOSS. Just because you are want to take charge of your life doesn't make you a bitch it makes you human. The most important thing I can tell is recognize and accept that you will not be able to control everything in life, sometimes you will have to just go with the flow and allow things to happen. Independence is fine and dandy but at times we all will have to depend on someone doesn't make you weak it makes you human.
Q: What is the difference between being "in love" and loving someone?
In my personal opinion there is a big difference from being in love and loving someone. I have love for everyone but I am not in love with everyone. We should all have "love" for one another and show respect and care for each other but doesn't mean that we marry or bed down everyone that we see, Being in love is an experience that can't be describe , it is giving someone your heart and trusting them not to break it. But love is an essential part of living, so just embrace it. Trust you will no when you fall in love.
Q: I can't stop having sex with my ex boyfriend even though I know he has a girl, but I don't feel bad because he cheated on me with her?
Baby Girl this question is so loaded I don't even know where to begin , so I guess I will dive in. You can stop having sex with him but you choose not too. For some reason you think that you are punishing her because she was the other woman but you fail to realize that the only person that is going to hurt is you. I mean he is still with her right and now instead of cheating with her, he's cheating with you. So, now you are going to allow another woman heel the hurt that you feel because obviously you haven't gotten over it or you would walk away not into his bedroom. You know what you are doing and a part of you is still holding on to him and I don't know the history of your relationship but it's obvious that you are still holding on and he's taking advantage of that.
Sister 2 Sister Sunday has been a BLAST, I hope that I have given you the answers and advice that you have been looking for. I am gearing up for next week so if send me all your questions. If your question has not been posted on here or either Instagram then check your inbox.
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