Thinking about it I could go almost any way I want with this post but lately I have been having a real issues with females, who portray themselves one and expect to be treated another. Don't get me wrong I believe that everyone should be respected at all times but sometimes especially as females you have to be conscious of what you are putting out there and how people are going to perceive it.
So, with that said let me get to the root cause of the note, there is a thin line between sexy and slutty and a lot of young and old females have crossed that line and then get offended when the opposite sex approaches them in what they may feel is disrespectful. Don't get me wrong you have the right to wear what you want but understand that all of us, are like walking advertisements , the way we dress, the way we talk and even the who we are around affect how others see us. So,if you are walking around with your ass and titties hanging out, talking about how you down for anything, and hanging with the next "super head" and you wondering why every man that approaches you have more interest in what between your legs then what's in your head. I can guarantee you that's the reason why. I know we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover but understand even when you buy books the cover is what peaks your interest. If you see a cover with pictures of 10 of hottest rappers when you open the book you don't expect to read about how to build an closet. That's the nature of things and ladies you can't get mad at men because we do the same thing.
I say that to say this, be mindful of the image you portray especially young girls. If you want to be treated like a Queen then you have to first learn to behave like one. What you put out is what you get back, so if you dressed like a SLUT then you don't get mad when a male approaches you like a SLUT because all he doing is giving you the attention that you are asking for. You can be a SEXY young lady with your assets covered and get much more attention then being SKANKY young lady with your ASS Out.
You have to determine what you want out of life and how you want people to see you. I am resigned to the fact that some ladies like that kind of attention and if you like it I LOVE it for you but for those who were getting that kind of attention and don't why. Do this:
1. Check your wardrobe: If you put on anything in your closet and your goodies are hanging out , THROW IT AWAY
2. Check the company you keep : You know the saying "Guilty by association"
3. Check yourself: You have to know that you are worthy of being treated like Queen
So, with that said let me get to the root cause of the note, there is a thin line between sexy and slutty and a lot of young and old females have crossed that line and then get offended when the opposite sex approaches them in what they may feel is disrespectful. Don't get me wrong you have the right to wear what you want but understand that all of us, are like walking advertisements , the way we dress, the way we talk and even the who we are around affect how others see us. So,if you are walking around with your ass and titties hanging out, talking about how you down for anything, and hanging with the next "super head" and you wondering why every man that approaches you have more interest in what between your legs then what's in your head. I can guarantee you that's the reason why. I know we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover but understand even when you buy books the cover is what peaks your interest. If you see a cover with pictures of 10 of hottest rappers when you open the book you don't expect to read about how to build an closet. That's the nature of things and ladies you can't get mad at men because we do the same thing.
I say that to say this, be mindful of the image you portray especially young girls. If you want to be treated like a Queen then you have to first learn to behave like one. What you put out is what you get back, so if you dressed like a SLUT then you don't get mad when a male approaches you like a SLUT because all he doing is giving you the attention that you are asking for. You can be a SEXY young lady with your assets covered and get much more attention then being SKANKY young lady with your ASS Out.
You have to determine what you want out of life and how you want people to see you. I am resigned to the fact that some ladies like that kind of attention and if you like it I LOVE it for you but for those who were getting that kind of attention and don't why. Do this:
1. Check your wardrobe: If you put on anything in your closet and your goodies are hanging out , THROW IT AWAY
2. Check the company you keep : You know the saying "Guilty by association"
3. Check yourself: You have to know that you are worthy of being treated like Queen
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