Life Lessons With Coach Destiny

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I was strolling through my facbook time line and I saw this article not only was it interesting and true and I waned to share it with you all.. Can you believe that it’s already December? This year has flown by in the blink of an eye and we’re on the verge of yet another year — a year full of possibility. What you will accomplish next year greatly depends on the people you surround yourself with. Or, in other words, it greatly depends on which people you decide not to surround yourself with. When bringing in the new year, be sure not to bring all your garbage with you. Leave these toxic individuals in 2014; you’ll feel much lighter, allowing you to get a great running start on the year to come. 1. The people who make your life more stressful. Stress isn’t necessarily a bad thing — in fact, it’s what you make it out to be. If you believe stress is bad for you, then it will be bad for you. If you use stress as the motivator it is, to motivate you to act, th...

The one thing that I have noticed when I began to come into my own, to follow my purpose and to allow God the freedom to work in your life also gives you so much clarity on other things. This week I have been dealing with " Hate" and the face that people can just show so much disdain for another person's position in life  without looking at the path that was taken to get  there. So, this post " Haters" 1. Haters do not really hate you,they hate themselves : You see when a person gives up on themselves and their dreams, they begin to despise everyone who didn't.  So, truthfully they don't hate you, they hate themselves for giving up. 2. LOVE conquers HATE : The best thing you can do to address a HATER is to just LOVE them,  pray that they make peace with their lives and find the strength to pursue their own dreams. 3. Don't let a HATER deter you from your DESTINY :   Never let the negativity of one , stop you from moving forward in you li...

It is crazy because when I sit down to write tonight this was suppose to be going into my new book , but I decided to share it with all you because ," Why Not", I share everything with you all anyway. For the last two days I have been a state of semi solitude, I have been feeling under the weather, overwhelmed and exhausted but this week I think my body gave in because it knew that my mind truly needed the break.  So, I took two days to rejuvenate my mind and communicate with my higher being, God speaks to me but only when I am fully surrendered in prayer and silence. So, for two days we have been having an ongoing debate , yeah I said I was debating with God, I mean he created me he knows first hand how stubborn I am but only until about a couple of hours I go after talking to my pops, my moment of clarity came. I have never been afraid of the challenge, of the trying my hand at the impossible, my resume is flooded with accomplishments but my worst fear is not failu...

So, nornally I would do Sister to Sister during Coach's Corner but last night I kind of got causht up in the topic and I ran out of time, but I did read and respond to all of my questions but I will be posting the top two which was about the topic of "Friend".. Q.: Do you feel that length of a friendship is equal to the quality of  friendship? A. : I think that is a common misconception when it comes for friendships, I believe the "No New Friends" was taken out of context. I think that quality always outweighs longevity because sometimes we just outgrow people and as we get older our lives changes henceforth what we look for in friendship does as well. I am not saying cut off your old friends but just evaluate and make sure you have all your friends in the right "section: of your life. Q.: I have a male friend and we have been friends every since I could remember but I have recently found out that he has has intimate feelings for me for the las...

Dependent upon the relationship, breaking up could be the easiest or the most painful thing you will have to do but regardless of the situation I have created some " Break Up Commandments" : Thou shall not drunk dial/text I know that the alcohol can have us in our emotions sometimes and have us feeling like we need to get some stuff of our chest. JUST DON'T DO IT.. resist the urge to call or text your ex especially when you are intoxicated nothing good will come from it. Thou shall not backslide There was a reason why you left and contrary to the hype there is so thing as " No strings attached" sex especially between exes because there was once love there hence "strings". I know it may seem easy or safe to release that sexual tension with someone that you already know intimately. Go to the gym, take a cold shower, watch porn anything but do not fall into that sand trap. Thou shall not vent on facebook The fact that you are w...

Coach Destiny, I have a group of friends we have been friends for a very long time but i have noticed that recently we don't have the same goals and ambitions.  often time i am just bored being around them. How  do you know when you have outgrown a friendship?   Chelsea I want you first to ask yourself is there any other reason why you are so disengaged with your friends. Do you have other friends?  Why are you still friends with them?  I think that you have to self explore a little,  we all have old friends that we may not speak often and we have friends that we speak with daily. After some exploration, if you do not have anything in common with them then maybe you should move forward in life but still be friendly cause good friends are hard to come by Coach Destiny I never really see you post anything about sex but I have a sex problem . I kind of overhead my boyfriend talking to his boys and he basically said "my sex was boring". I don't...